Jason’s friend was different from the other kids on the block. He rarely came out to play, and when he did, instead of joining in the basketball game, he ran in circles, jumping up and down. His parents watched, hoping their son would connect with the group, only to see that the other children really didn’t understand him at all. When Jason asked his dad why his friend was so different, his … [Read more...]
God Hears Your Prayers
When you feel invisible, remember God sees
Earlier this year I attended a national autism conference. Over 600 parents gathered together to learn more about autism, the latest learning technology, and perhaps the key to unlocking their child's potential. For two days I meandered around the conference. Everyone seemed hurried. Determined. Eyes straight ahead. Bent on trying to get to their next break-out session. I remember … [Read more...]
Saying Yes To A Wheelchair
A common "stereotype" of a person who is in a wheel chair is that the chair itself limits that person from living a full life and balanced life. Sometimes when we are in public people will make comments like "poor kid to be so limited." ( I personally find this very rude and really have to hold my tongue) The fact is for Lilly a wheelchair enables her to do things that she once could not. In … [Read more...]
How We Define Our Children
Maybe some of you are like me. Raised in a Christian home where I often felt defined by what I didn’t do. Don’t lie, Don’t swear, Don’t steal, Don’t cheat, and Don’t hang around other boys who do. To no surprise, I found that in my early years of parenting two boys with severe autism that I had been guilty of spending more time on the “dont’s“ than the “do’s.” I spent more time … [Read more...]
On Fear And Fall Festivals
This week is full of fall festivals, and we're scheduled to attend a few. While this usually doesn't bother me, I have some reservations this year. We've had a rough month with a major plumbing project, both vehicles in the shop for repairs, illness, and the accompanying financial stress. As a result of the drama, my daughter has experienced some regression, especially in her sensory processing … [Read more...]