Jason’s friend was different from the other kids on the block. He rarely came out to play, and when he did, instead of joining in the basketball game, he ran in circles, jumping up and down. His parents watched, hoping their son would connect with the group, only to see that the other children really didn’t understand him at all. When Jason asked his dad why his friend was so different, his … [Read more...]
Sabbath Rest
Do you ever feel like a human doing instead of a human being? I do. (No pun intended!) Most of us, from the time our feet hit the floor in the early morning hours until we climb back into bed late at night, do not pause in our doing. It’s different for each of us, depending on what life stage we’re in, but it looks something like this: Make breakfast. Pack lunches. Clean up kitchen. … [Read more...]
I Am Tired and Weary
I am tired. I am weary. I feel overwhelmed. It is that time of year for me when all the holidays start coming one after the other. It is that time of year where my son Charlie’s work at school starts getting harder and in more abundance. It is that time of year where I am longing for a break or rest. Do you have those same thoughts and feelings? Lately in my small group at church I have … [Read more...]
God Hears Your Prayers
When you feel invisible, remember God sees
Earlier this year I attended a national autism conference. Over 600 parents gathered together to learn more about autism, the latest learning technology, and perhaps the key to unlocking their child's potential. For two days I meandered around the conference. Everyone seemed hurried. Determined. Eyes straight ahead. Bent on trying to get to their next break-out session. I remember … [Read more...]
Mourning The Losses of Life
Many parents of special needs children grieve and mourn the loss of their dreams and expectations for their children around the time they are first getting a diagnosis. I did not experience that with my son. I had lost three children before having my son and my pregnancy with him was precarious to the point that he only had a five percent chance of being born and surviving. I was so grateful and … [Read more...]